Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Not ALL who wander are lost

According to the dictionary a wanderer is defined as; “To proceed in an irregular course.”

The statement suggests that some wanderers are in fact lost...but to me to wander means to search. To be lost suggest that you will not be found. But, in life wanderers who search do find their destination in life.

People search all their lives for their little niche in society. The place where they fit, a place where they feel comfortable and where they can be themselves .It is part of human nature to be uncertain in some aspects of life. You date a skater-boy only to find that you actually prefer a jock, you eat steak only to find you are a vegetarian, you participate in sports only to find that you are only interested in poetry. Ultimately you find your destination.

The wandering stage of one’s life is not always a pleasant stage. You may be teased for dressing like Madonna (you thought you looked like her and thought people would find you interesting) .You may be ridiculed for singing in the school choir (you are a boy who want to impress the girls, and they all seem to like the singing sensation of the Backstreet Boys) This is a stage of uncertainty, a stage of unknown.

This wandering eventually brings you to your destination, the place where you want to be...a place where you are allowed to be YOU and accepted for it.

1 comment:

  1. I agree. The wandering stages of our life can be very unpleasant and it takes times to come to your destination. Wandering is a great stage to go through to find yourself and there you will, at the end, find yourself.

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